Coen

EFT relationship therapist and coach

This way you learn to better understand your partner and also get the space to share your side of the story in such a way that your partner hears and understands you.

When people have relationship issues often both partners are focused on their own feelings. These feelings might get triggered by your partner's behavior and can feel so urgent that there is simply no space to listen to your partner. It feels as if your story never really gets through to your partner and your partner probably has the same feelings.

Both partners feel threatened, unheard and unseen and where the relationship once started with a strong feeling of 'us', it now feels like 'me against you'. So it’s important that both stories are being told and heard well.
 

During the sessions I make sure that the usual pitfalls of accusing, blaming, explaining and defending are avoided. I will create a space for you to fully hear and understand each other. You will learn to talk to each other in a more constructive and loving way and know how to avoid escalation.

In some cases it can also be useful to get individual coaching, focused on your own underlying struggles, separate from your partner.

Would you like to know more or make an appointment, feel free to contact me.

Coen