Every conflict in a relationship carries the silent imprint of your family of origin. When you grew up in different cultures, these blueprints—on everything from money and time to communication might be quite different. The fight you are having isn't just with your partner; it's a collision between two deep-seated, unconscious cultural systems.
Finding common sense starts with becoming a cultural detective. Shift your focus from "You are wrong" to "Tell me more." What were the silent rules in their home? What did their culture teach them to value? Understanding the blueprint is key to building a new foundation together.
Finding common sense starts with becoming a cultural detective. Shift your focus from "You are wrong" to "Tell me more." What were the silent rules in their home? What did their culture teach them to value? Understanding the blueprint is key to building a new foundation together.
